Thoughts of a guy...

"Alright, here goes. I'm old. What that means is that I've survived (so far) and a lot of people I've known and loved did not. I've lost friends, best friends, acquaintances, co-workers, grandparents, mom, relatives, teachers, mentors, students, neighbors, and a host of other folks. I have no children, and I can't imagine the pain it must be to lose a child. But here's my two cents. I wish I could say you get used to people dying. I never did. I don't want to. It tears a hole through me whenever somebody I love dies, no matter the circumstances. But I don't want it to "not matter". I don't want it to be something that just passes. My scars are a testament to the love and the relationship that I had for and with that person. And if the scar is deep, so was the love. So be it. Scars are a testament to life. Scars are a testament that I can love deeply and live deeply and be cut, or even gouged, and that I can heal and continue to li

Life is short. Actually, life is pretty long if you count the entirety of it. But there are more things you can do in your 20s than in your 80s. So life when you can accomplish the most has an incredibly narrow window. So I count every day until my next birthday, to remind myself that I have less than 365 days at the age I am right now. And one I reach that next birthday, I will never be that age again. Living each day in anticipation of your age increasing has allowed me to get away with stuff others put off because they think they have time. The number of approaches I do is phenomenal. I go on a run, I get a phone number. I have breakfast, get a phone number. Walking down the street, get a phone number. When you embrace how limited the time is at your age, you will go above and beyond to make every day count. You also don't take things as personally. A woman doesn't like you, doesn't matter, because you do not have enough time to care what one single woman thinks of

you’re in your 20’s.  you realize you don’t care about shit as much as you used to.  it makes you feel uneasy for a while because you still kind of care about people caring about you not caring.  but once you stop caring about not caring, it gets better. Taken from:  http://shimshang.tumblr.com/post/63807546780/youre-in-your-20s-you-realize-you-dont-care

So here goes the list of all the Environment variables that are inbuilt and can be used with ur CGI script: Variable Name Value DOCUMENT_ROOT The root directory of your server HTTP_COOKIE The visitor's cookie, if one is set HTTP_HOST The hostname of your server HTTP_REFERER The URL of the page that called your script HTTP_USER_AGENT The browser type of the visitor HTTPS "on" if the script is being called through a secure server PATH The system path your server is running under QUERY_STRING The query string (see GET, below) REMOTE_ADDR The IP address of the visitor REMOTE_HOST The hostname of the visitor (if your server has reverse-name-lookups on; otherwise this is the IP address again) REMOTE_PORT The port the visitor is connected to on the web server REMOTE_USER The visitor's username (for .htaccess-protected pages) REQUEST_METHOD GET or POST REQUEST_URI The interpreted pathname of the requested document or CGI (relative to the document root) SC

The kid has made numerous attempts to climb on that bench but so far the success was none. He was young or can say ‘too young’. I guessed him to be 5yrs or less in age but his adherence to  the task have won attention of almost every adult present in that Park. He has been trying to climb that bench for an hour now. All external help, in between, was denied efficaciously by him. Helping hands with beautiful faces were pushed away and ugly ones were vilified with scared runs.  To satisfy my urge of seeing the cute warrior’s face, I walked closer to him.  He was a sweet little kid in shorts and blue check shirt. His tiny and chubby appearance resembled the cutest soft toy one can ever imagine. But his actions were far away from matching his looks.  He was determined to get what he wants and ignored all physical limitation which his age was trying to put on to him. His endeavor caught attention of few eyes first but slowly and gradually Entire Park crowded around him to cheer him u

9 Things To Stop Doing In Your 20s 1. Stop placing all the blame on other people for how they interact with you.  To an extent, people treat you the way you want to be treated. A lot of social behavior is cause and effect. Take responsibility for (accept) the fact that you are the only constant variable in your equation. 2. Stop being lazy by being constantly “busy.”  It’s easy to be busy. It justifies never having enough time to clean, cook for yourself, go out with friends, meet new people. Realize that every time you give in to your ‘busyness,’ it’s you who’s making the decision, not the demands of your job. 3. Stop seeking out distractions.  You will always be able to find them. 4. Stop trying to get away with work that’s “good enough.”  People notice when “good enough” is how you approach your job. Usually these people will be the same who have the power to promote you, offer you a health insurance plan, and give you more money. They will take your approach into conside

Wow,   this might sound stupid but I just figured out the shortcut key to switch between the same application but different windows, for example multiple chrome windows or word or safari etcetera. The key combination is: command + ~ ~Enjoy~

1. Give up your need to always be right.  There are so many of us who can’t stand the idea of being wrong – wanting to always be right – even at the risk of ending great relationships or causing a great deal of stress and pain, for us and for others. It’s just not worth it. Whenever you feel the ‘urgent’ need to jump into a fight over who is right and who is wrong, ask yourself this question:  “Would I rather be right, or would I rather be kind?” Wayne Dyer. What difference will that make? Is your ego really that big? 2. Give up your need for control.  Be willing to give up your need to always control everything that happens to you and around you – situations, events, people, etc. Whether they are loved ones, coworkers, or just strangers you meet on the street – just allow them to be. Allow everything and everyone to be just as they are and you will see how much better will that make you feel. “By letting it go it all gets done. The world is won by those who let it go. But when

Finally, making the move! to the new city, new life, new experiences! Cannot wait to see what lies ahead (excited after a long time). Signed the new lease today with two other roommates! hopefully they are as chill as me :) peace for now!

To survive in this world, we hold close to us those on whom we depend. We trust in them our hopes, our fears... But what happens when trust is lost? Where do we run, when things we believe in vanish before our eyes? When all seems lost, the future unknowable, our very existence in peril... All we can do is run.

“This is the thing: When you hit 28 or 30, everything begins to divide. You can see very clearly two kinds of people. On one side, people who have used their 20s to learn and grow, to find … themselves and their dreams, people who know what works and what doesn’t, who have pushed through to become real live adults. Then there’s the other kind, who are hanging onto college, or high school even, with all their might. They’ve stayed in jobs they hate, because they’re too scared to get another one. They’ve stayed with men or women who are good but not great, because they don’t want to be lonely. … they mean to develop intimate friendships, they mean to stop drinking like life is one big frat party. But they don’t do those things, so they live in an extended adolescence, no closer to adulthood than when they graduated.  Don’t be like that. Don’t get stuck. Move, travel, take a class, take a risk. There is a season for wildness and a season for settledness, and this is neither. This season

Hello,     Getting strainght to point to use gzip on terimal you need to run this command: tar -cvzf "nameuwanttogive.gz" nameoffiletocompress cheers!

Show Full Path in Terminal Opern Iterm, duh! Go to you home direct Type:   cd ~ Type:   mate .bashrc Type:  export PS1=" " Between the quotation marks, you can add the following lines to customize your Terminal prompt: \d – Current date \t – Current time \h – Host name \# – Command number \u – User name \W – Current working directory (ie: Desktop/) \w – Current working directory, full path (ie: /Users/Admin/Desktop) export PS1="\u@\h\w$ "   which will look like:  Admin@MacBook~Desktop/$ " mate is text mate you need to install it in mac to make it work or you can also use free editors like nano, vi/vim. Source: soniajahid